5 things that girls can't hear before the wedding

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"It's a shame that a girl doesn't hear!"
Sometimes when adults say that, you feel embarrassed, ashamed, and even upset: "Why do they think they have touched the ground?" you say. Don't worry, girl. In fact, it is better to close your ears to some words, because they will negatively affect you, your future life.

So those magic sayings are:

1. Details of the first wedding night. Of course, the importance of sex education in preparing girls for family life is immeasurable. In this sense, girls need to know about the first wedding night. But here it is necessary to distinguish useful information from harmful. Information that does not frighten the girl, does not bother the delicate relationship, is whispered in the ears of the bride by the bridegroom as the wedding night approaches, that is, without any scary details, the most important things for the bride. But some, especially newlyweds, can poison a girl's mind by telling colorful (often scary) details about their first nights out. So get the information from the yangs and don't be interested in the details. After all, everyone's first wedding night is only his own, he is not like anyone else.

2. Bad words of brides about their mother-in-law. I am in favor of covering the ears of girls when someone starts to abuse their mother-in-law. It's like a contagious disease. When the girl heard that her mother-in-law was bad, she became convinced. He steps into the new family with this wrong, destructive confidence, not everyone believes that his mother-in-law will be good when he is bad. This means that the foundation of the relationship has been undermined from the very beginning. Mothers, daughters-in-law, let's not infect our daughters with our own pain, so that they believe that their future mothers-in-law are not your mothers-in-law, but people like their grandmothers.

3. Stories that exaggerate the hardships of the bride. Do not listen to such statements as "Are you a bride, okay, you are not human", "You do not rest from early morning to midnight, you are no different from a slave." Those brides are people who do not understand or appreciate their happiness. That's right, someone's house, a new family, a new relationship… Of course, you can't be a man like walking in the arms of your parents. But do not be afraid to work, but think about how many people envy you. After all, you start a new life, everyone expects the best from you, your spouse loves and respects you, your mother-in-law wants to show off to others. You are a person who starts a happy life in a house with a golden threshold. This condition can last a lifetime, it's all in your hands.

4. Grief in the context of "All men are one grave." That's not true. If someone burns her husband, it is his destiny. I am not an angel in heaven. Men have good and bad, or rather, each has its own pros and cons. If you exaggerate the good and hide the bad (who doesn't want to be a good person), it will change. Sometimes what a parent can't do, a loved one can do with a sweet word, that is, they can set the world right. It is not in vain that they say, "He who makes the earth a land." So, if someone in front of you starts insulting her husband, close your ears.

5. Myths about the pain of childbirth and raising a child. You have heard the saying: "The eyes of fear are big", "The one who is afraid looks like a double". It is true that it is not easy to give birth to a human being, but there is no woman in the world who cannot bear this pain. Because after childbirth, you become the happiest person in the world - a mother. From the moment you put your baby in your arms, you forget about all the suffering, and soon you start making plans to bring your little brother or sister. You will not be alone in raising and educating: