I have no desire to be with my husband

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I have no desire to be with my husband

When you look at the title, you remember a problem that once happened in your life or still exists, and your flesh is bruised. True, sexual intimacy is important in a couple's relationship. But what if you don't like your spouse on that particular issue? On the contrary, if you can't explain it to him, or if you are accused and punished for "indifference" and "change"… So why is that? Why don’t you love the sultan of your heart and want to be with him? What is the reason for this? Let's try to find a solution.

Let's go back…

For what qualities did you fall in love with your cheating spouse? Don't bite your lip and say, "She's beautiful, she's always looking at herself." If everything is different today, you alone are to blame. He looked in the mirror and said, "Who do you want to like?" You have turned your prince into a man with long hair and beard. In that case, if they approach you, you will definitely refuse.

 

What hinders sexual intimacy? I have no desire to be with my husband

What is returning from intimacy, a bloated stomach or an unpleasant odor coming from it? If you don’t believe in answering, know that this is also your problem. It was not to cause a tummy tuck. If you don't look for diets for your body and say, "You're getting fat, keep exercising," your ass won't go away. Or teach yourself to use fragrances before intimacy, using your feminine tricks. After all, you could. In the style of "I really like the scent that emanates from you."

For the first year after the wedding, sexual intimacy was desirable for both of you. From your partner’s caressing words, you knew you were the happiest woman in the world. What about now? You say, "He doesn't care," "He's rude," "He only thinks of himself." Think about it, since when? Maybe it was caused by a situation? Perhaps you have mixed up marital problems in bed, causing passions to fade. Don’t be offended by what you say. Because men don’t like to be distracted by other issues during intimacy. In women, the opposite is true.

I have no desire to be with my husband

Is sexual intimacy hindered by resentment between you?

Yes, there is this side to the problem. Usually, a man loses interest in her because of a misbehavior, mistake, or severe offense. Especially if he insults, humiliates, or tramples on his wife, the feelings will gradually disappear. It is painful as it has a severe effect on a woman’s psyche. It is the frequent recurrence of these cases that creates problems with intimacy.

 

If this situation is familiar to you, talk to your partner. Express your dissatisfaction with the treatment. You have a right to it! Change your attitude accordingly. You start the change, and he will follow you.

 

Create harmony…

10-15 years cannot be the basis for the extinction of passions. In-laws' quarrels, the birth of one child after another - these should not extinguish the flame of love. If you want, you can return the “honeymoon”. But for that, you have to learn to listen, understand and love each other. It is also important to respect each other’s interests and opinions. You come from the "garden", it comes from the "mountain", where does the harmony come from?

 

Everyone has problems! I have no desire to be with my husband

Your husband is very simple. Unlucky. Not thoroughly. Maybe these are the reasons that keep you away from intimacy? Maybe your financial limitations or not being as resourceful as others are testing your feelings? Conclusion is up to you, but cracking the relationship as transient… Don’t be offended if you have a strong opinion, but behind every successful man is a strong woman. Become that woman, you will see how your spouse will change!

 

"A woman who makes the earth a land and a woman who makes the land black." If you’ve read the points above, you understand why we end up with exactly this proverb. It is not too late to return previous passions to the relationship. Be a little more careful, a little more resourceful. Forget anger!

 

Specialist: Dilmurod ERGASHEV, sexopathologist.

Journalist: Marjona.

Source: Darakchi newspaper.