What to do with a capricious and obstinate child?
To our asking mothers:
It is the first duty of parents to explain right and wrong, good and bad to a child. That's why you should not let your child become a capricious child by quarreling in vain. Frequent change of teacher or kindergarten, various problematic situations in the family also cause a capricious and aggressive mood in the child. Therefore, pay attention to preschool educational institutions and their teachers. After all, it is important in the formation of a child as a person. In addition, the upbringing you gave the child before the age of 3 plays a key role in this. Show that you love her without overdoing it.
It is a problem for parents when a child becomes quarrelsome and stubborn. Aggressiveness of children is considered as a combination of internal mental turmoil and negative emotions. Such children cannot go out with their peers, often fight with them, break toys. With this, he wants to attract the attention of his mother, the educator. They deliberately dress slowly to attract attention, do not put away toys, do not start talking until you speak well.
There are many situations in our life that cause bad feelings, make a person tolerant, angry, curious. And children quickly pick up on the mood of the people around them. Therefore, parents should not discuss bad things in front of their children, should not quarrel with each other, should not watch destructive or tragic shows and movies.
If you observe such behavior in your child, look for the fault only in yourself. The reason for this behavior is unhealthy family environment. To correct this behavior, first of all, arrange family relations.
If your child is capricious and quarrelsome, you can change his character in a positive way with the help of the following games.
Let's shake the dust (for a 4-year-old child)
Each child is given one pillow. Children should beat him as if he were dusting him. The benefit of the exercise is that the child expels the bad energy in each stroke, through force.
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Knock down the tower (for a 5-year-old)
Build a tower that isn't too tall from the pillows. The main goal of each participant is to jump on this tower with all his strength, to express his joy with all his voice. The participant who conquers the tower without overturning the pillows is considered the winner. Of course, every participant is encouraged with a sweet word for the achievement.
The main goal of these games is to remove the aggressive and capricious mood in the child with strength and action. If you want your child to grow up to be a perfect person in the future, direct his inner energy to the formation of positive qualities.
