How to prepare for the wedding night?

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How to prepare for the wedding night?
That night is full of secrets that newlyweds await. Young people are advised to wear elegant clothes and perfume themselves. The bridegroom who enters the bride must first greet her, give her a small gift, treat her to something, and have a sincere conversation. Then it is better for the youth to pray two rak'ahs separately and ask Allah to make their lives happy and abundant. It helps to distract young people and calm them down a bit, because prayer has a strong psychological effect.
If the wedding night coincides with the bride’s menstrual day, then sexual intercourse is definitely postponed to other days, because having sex on menstrual days is haram.
I still don’t want to ignore the custom among Muslim peoples, the habit of waiting for the end of sex between young people outside the room to check the bedroom and make sure the bride is innocent. But managing young people is a dirty habit to study issues that should remain a secret between spouses. This custom violates Islamic guidelines not to spy or spy on other people.
It reveals things that should be kept secret between spouses because their relationship is the sanctity of marriage. The situation may arise that the bride may become the object of unfounded suspicions, damaging her honor and dignity. Such traditions can overshadow youth relationships and darken their entire lives. Therefore, Muslims should make every effort to renounce such customs that are contrary to the principles of Islam.
A wedding night requires patience and delicacy. The big responsibility falls on the man’s shoulders. The bride’s fear and excitement is normal, and the man should do everything he can tonight not to disgust or intimidate the bride, as this can leave a mark on her for the rest of her life.
First, it is very difficult for a girl to leave the parental home where she has spent all her years and start a new life in a new home, to be submissive to a man, and at this moment she really needs understanding and compassion. No woman will ever forget her first man. And if the first night is full of new and pleasant feelings, if everything is wrapped in love and affection, he will be grateful to her for the rest of his life. Even if they break up for some reason, the memories of the first night always make them feel good.
Some young people think they need to show their masculinity on the first night and be rude and careless. A wedding night requires subtlety, and should give you more than just getting married. Every man should learn that the first night can have a big impact on the future life of the family.
Don’t start with an immediate undressing. It is recommended that the girl do this herself. In this case, under no circumstances should you immediately examine the bride’s body greedily. In many cases, undressing in front of a man for the first time in her life, the girl is experiencing unprecedented embarrassment. The male body evokes his fear. So the first time is to turn the lamp on or off or undress behind a curtain, and for a man it is best not to look at the bride. First you have to take off your outerwear, and the underwear is already under the bed, under the sheets.
Love games and affection are very important on their wedding night. No matter how shy the girl is, no matter how shy, but gradually she starts to calm down. If the man is delicate and behaves as expected, the desire in the bride will slowly begin to awaken.
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