I don’t enjoy sex with my husband.

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I don’t enjoy sex with my husband.

“We were married according to our parents. In those ten years we have had a son and a daughter. We are fed up with ourselves, but I often feel lonely because I am so unhappy as a woman… Sometimes I want to expose the horns that are hiding in the depths of my body and torment me, to get out of my screams. .

 

My husband doesn’t want to understand me. Only he enjoys the sexual intimacy between us. At such times, bad thoughts come to my mind and I want to take revenge on him. Sometimes I calm myself down with the thought, "You'll see, I'll have a chance to feel happy as a woman, too." But I regret that I will never be able to do that, that I will remain an unhappy woman again. My heart aches from being late, I don’t want to go home from work. Because when I was waiting for my husband to come home from work, when I was preparing desserts for him, I would be very eager to hear a saying, "Your food is sweet." And he is completely indifferent, not worth a warm word. Now I’m also cool from cooking delicious meals for her. I feel mentally ill from time to time, I miss my children.

 

I lift the house on my head and sing about my unfulfilled dreams, my unattainable love. I cry and feel a little relieved. ”

 

It is clear from this letter that the imbalances in a couple’s sexual life will inevitably have a negative impact on their relationship. Lack of knowledge and understanding of the laws of sexual life, low level of sexual culture leads to situations such as dissatisfaction of the husband or wife, coldness from each other. As a result, respect and affection between the couple is lost. An unhealthy mental environment develops in the family. As long as the marriage is concluded by mutual consent of the husband and wife, the sexual intimacy must be in the interest of both.

 

It is well known that Uzbeks are ashamed of many things related to sex. Some girls have absolutely no idea about sex even when they get married. However, a woman’s inability to respond to her husband as a sexual partner leads to conflicts between the two. The husband cools off from his family and enters the path of adultery, which in turn can lead to an increase in sexually transmitted diseases.

 

Also, some men are indifferent to their women’s feelings. As can be seen from the letter above, such an attitude crushes the woman spiritually. Unilateral termination of sexual intercourse by the husband can lead to disruption of the activity of the female genitals. Because in women who are strongly aroused during sexual intercourse and do not end with a feeling of orgasm, that is, in women who do not feel satisfaction, strong nervous tension, sometimes affective states (crying, anger), as well as from the spouse cases such as disappointment are observed. If sexual satisfaction is not achieved, it has a negative effect on the circulatory system of the genitals. As a result, the woman is injured not only mentally but also physically.

 

The family is sacred and a sacred corner for everyone. It is up to each couple to maintain it, prevent and eliminate conflicts related to sexual problems.