In the modern world, finding a partner is not that difficult. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. The tips, tricks and secrets in this article will help you attract the attention of an unfamiliar girl and increase your chances of meeting girls in real life, on the internet, on dating sites.

Ways to meet girls in real life

In casual life, casual dating is increasingly reminiscent of ‘antiquity’. Still, this is one of the most romantic situations you can tell your grandchildren.

However, this approach has a number of other undeniable advantages. First, you always see a real person, not a reworked, half-shot photo of him “10 years ago”. Second, you can make the most of your charm: unfortunately, virtual communication still can’t deliver all the nuances of life.

Here are some ways you can use to meet girls offline.

1. Demonstrate confidence and transparency

Noverbal (body movements) signals can come in handy during real life dating. Remember open poses, stable (but not excessive) eye contact, and a sincere smile. They do half the work: getting the attention of a stranger girl.

2. Offer help

A polite stranger who offers to help girls carry a heavy suitcase or explain the way will, as a rule, make them happy. Just don’t be misled by the gentle annoyance. Usually ‘no’ means ‘no’ and extreme persistence doesn’t add points to you.

3. Use any information about the stranger girl

Is he reading a book by a well-known author on the subway or on public transportation? Or does it have a shirt with a picture of Darth Vader on it? This is a topic ready to start the first conversation.

But here, too, it is necessary to think. There is no need to comment on the events on the girl’s cell phone, even if she doesn’t cover it with her hand. This is an intrusion into private life.

4. Take advantage of the situation

If you’re at a concert or exhibition, then your interests will probably coincide with the girl’s interests, and it will be easier to find a topic of conversation. It can also be the most typical places: shop, cafe, gym. Even a housing company, why not, right?

Use the environment as a reason to start a conversation. For example, you could tell a girl that she looks like someone she can trust and ask her which product or dish is best to choose. Discuss the nuances of the sessions or issues related to the neighborhood. In general, make the most of all the resources of daily life.

5. Compliment

If the compliment is devoid of simplicity and is clear, it is considered a winning option. Forget words that are as simple and straightforward as her eyes are like the ocean and her hair is like a waterfall. However, don’t overdo it in the originality section: information about the girl’s best finger thickness in the world or the ideal curvature of her teeth is definitely unnecessary when dating.

It is better to give up even the most luxurious sayings prepared in advance. Because the second (third, fourth, etc.) sentences must correspond to the virtuosity of the first sentence. Otherwise, all efforts will be in vain.

If you are not sure of your oratory skills, just go to him and admit that you like the girl, that she is interested in you. Sincerity is better than any well-thought-out ‘talk’.

6. Tighten the safety

Dating in real life almost always happens unexpectedly. All sudden and unknown events are equated with risk. Therefore, be very polite, courteous and never enter the girl’s personal zone. Otherwise, your emotions will frighten him and make him run away faster. Even if you do everything else right.

How to meet girls on social networks

The advantage of social networks is obvious: they provide a lot of information about the person you want to meet and in a sense simplify the first step. But there are also places where you can stumble. Use the following tips to get the attention of a beautiful stranger girl.

1. Search for a pair in thematic groups

The easiest way to meet and find a suitable girl is to choose by interest. Groups, pubs, social media events - you can meet or date a girl right there. It will not be difficult to make a rough list of topics for conversation.

2. Write a letter or comments

If you want to meet a girl, it’s better to express it in words than to quietly click a dozen likes. Hadeb likes may perceive you as an inadequate or infantile person.

3. Track your online behavior

Have you recently published posts about ending your relationship with another girl? Do all women post pictures of the same ugly tribe? Are you rude in the comments? If so, don’t be surprised if your emails go unanswered.

4. Practice literacy

Punctuality is the courtesy of kings, while literacy is the courtesy of internet users. And this is the first proof that you are intellectually developed. So try to avoid at least simple mistakes. When in doubt, look for answers in a dictionary or sources related to the topic.

5. Don’t go overboard

The immediate transition to “you” may seem like a rush to someone. But at the same time, writing “you” and using the stylistics of the XNUMXth century at the same time is not the best choice. In this case, you will look like a strange old man, not a fun and modern person.

How to meet girls on dating sites: ways

At first glance, dating through a special site or services seems very easy because they are used by girls who want to date. But potential satellites are no exception. Follow these rules to increase your chances.

1. Take a smart approach to filling out a profile

Do you want a serious relationship? Don’t post a picture of the torso and other naked parts of the body on it (or at least don’t make a basic picture). Even if you have incredible press cubes. Although it is impossible to hide such beauty.

It’s best to focus on pictures that reveal your personality, that show your face.

Also, don’t be lazy to fill out a profile detail and pay special attention to the section where your interests are listed. Remember: the more accurate the description, the more likely you are to meet the right girl. So don’t be limited to general words.

2. Avoid new users

Many dating sites advertise new users: they are placed on the front pages or in special sections that everyone sees. As a result, new registrants (especially girls) receive a lot of messages. This means that your message may simply go unnoticed.

3. Don’t be familiar

Don’t let the girl in the picture remind you of a kitten or a princess, you shouldn’t let her know about it in the first letter. For acquaintance - even on specialized sites - polite words and politeness are inappropriate.

4. Say “no” to simplicity

Dating sites and services create a sense of a wide selection. And given that girls get more messages than boys, guys need to stand out.

The cruel truth is that the next “hello, how are you” doesn’t evoke a desire to respond, a standard interrogation with passion loses all desire to continue the conversation.

Be more specific. Use the information provided in the girl’s profile to make the acquaintance, or choose a unique topic for the conversation. For example, invite them to share incredible events in life or talk about the strangest dream. As a result, you attract attention, avoid boring interrogations, and melt the ice in between.

5. Forget to spread the same message

Most guys are tired of writing hundreds of gospels and prefer to come up with one - a big, detailed and universal message. At least, they think so. In fact, a text devoid of personal appeal is immediately noticeable and of even less interest.

The advice is simple: figure out what kind of girl you’re looking for, take the time to choose the right candidates, and write them at least one, but lively sentence. Repeat if necessary. They say that the seeker will find.

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Of course, some of the recommendations in the article are universal: it makes sense to be polite, literate, and knowledgeable, both online and in real life. There are two other ways to work in any situation: to joke confidently, to ask the girl questions, and thus to show interest in her.