What advice can you give to unrequited lovers?

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Is it possible to give advice to those who love in a completely unresponsive way? If you haven’t been in a similar situation, you can’t advise anything because you don’t understand what unrequited love is.
First, you take a philosophical approach to your situation. There is absolutely no need to reckon with life, drink until fainting, or perform other reckless actions. Just accept the situation as it is, "Why not me?", "What's wrong with him?" Don’t bother yourself with questions like. Don’t deepen your situation, if your stars don’t match, it’s no one’s fault, just accept it as it is. Maybe one-sided love is a small event in your life, the most important meeting awaits you after the turn. Love is a disease, a drug that "infects" you. So only you can free yourself from this addiction.
Don’t try to get a sense of response in any way. Love is not something that happens on purpose, you get the compassion or dislike of the person you truly love by your actions. After a while, you will be embarrassed by this job. In addition, the other person is not considered your private property. He won’t behave the way you want him to. If he doesn’t love, you can’t make him happy and you can’t force him to love.
You don’t have to create problems by expressing your feelings to someone you truly love or to those around you. On top of that, if the person you love has a family. Your love will pass quickly. You will have to deal with the problems you cause at this stage for a long time. Often when we fall in love with someone, we stop accountable to ourselves what kind of person they are. Perhaps he is not adapted to family life and normal relationships. Usually when a woman falls in love and the man doesn’t realize it in time, it poisons his life.
Remember, all of this is temporary. As it is written in Solomon's ring, "this too shall pass away." Not only can mutual love last a long time, but it can also become a habit, respect, and friendship later on. Unrequited love passes quickly because it is not backed up by anything. The key is to get out of the situation properly. Resentment of destiny can be lived by cursing a person who does not respond to love. Or it is possible to understand everything correctly, to miss the situation, to move forward to meet true love without breaking the heart.
When you are mixed with your own sorrows and pains, you don’t even realize that life has just passed you by. You will miss the opportunity to meet your loved one and feel loved just for you. Your heart will tremble at the sound of his footsteps, and then it will start beating harder as a result of his slight touch. You turn away from all of this and panic because you lost it. So ask yourself whether you should be upset with someone who hasn’t responded to your fate and feelings.
You decide for yourself whether or not to be happy.

Mirmuhammad Ergashev, Gooper.uz special for

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