It is safe to say that everyone has experienced unrequited love at least once in their life. Over time, we try to forget this life failure and never remember it. Today Gooper.uzWe write about unrequited love. Please!
When a person falls in love, his heart becomes tender. When you and your love are rejected, you fall into an awkward position. You fall in love with a man so much that he remains indifferent to you. But you can’t give up your love either, your heart won’t let that happen. As a result, you become depressed and have no purpose in life.
Time is the best doctor, they say. Fortunately, over time, your feelings will fade, your feelings will pass, and you will continue to live. Someone meets true love and builds a new relationship, while someone falls back into the previous predicament. You suffer from unrequited love, rely on your repentance, and promise yourself that you will never be in such a predicament again. But here's that "old bathroom, old dust." True, you will find another partner, you will pour your heart out to him, but what if he is also indifferent and insensitive to you? The question is, why do we fall into such a predicament, falling in love with those who don’t like us? The fault is in ourselves. We find people who are deliberately indifferent to us, apparently.
Usually, the events that take place in our lives are spontaneous. Not everyone can plan and control their personal life. Every woman dreams of meeting a unique man who is fluffy in every way: beautiful, energetic, rich, educated, and most importantly, wants to carry him on his head. In life, however, she encounters a man who is the complete opposite of her ideal. Maybe it’s time to find out what’s going on. Emotions: fear, excitement, imaginary thoughts need to be analyzed.
You dream of meeting a prince (princess), but you are afraid of this meeting yourself. Because you don’t consider yourself worthy of it. You don’t know that you are as beautiful, handsome, and smart as you need to be. All these fears prevent a real meeting with the prince (princess). You may meet the people of your dreams on your way to life, but they will pass unnoticed by you without seeing you, because with you your fears will follow like a shadow. In fact, these fears make you look ugly, awkward, and stupid to everyone. As a result, the image that you have formed will be met with resentment, and the candidates of real value will pass by you unnoticed. Horror! Alam! Injustice! These feelings don’t give you peace, right? But don’t despair, anything is possible.
Your constant suffering from unrequited love - confirms one thing. Suffering is your favorite pastime. You want suffering, not love. That's why you choose couples who will give you such an opportunity. True, no one is insured against unrequited love, it can happen to anyone in life. This is something else. But if you have a tendency to suffer, if you have difficulties in your life, if you can't do anything - then you need help. First of all there is your help. Because we shape life situations ourselves, and change is in our own hands.
Our attention and compliment to people who are indifferent and indifferent to us emphasizes that suffering is not only normal for us, but a martyr of suffering. This is the case with people who did not enjoy the attention and love of their parents at a young age. As a person grows up, he tries to apply this scenario to his personal life without knowing it. It is not love, it is the pursuit and pursuit of it with excess.
Man cannot get out of such a difficult situation independently. It is necessary to consult a psychologist. But first, the person must recognize the problem and want to fix it.
Once a person realizes that the cause of his suffering is in himself, he takes the first step to change the situation himself. After all, love and being loved is a great happiness. Love is a positive emotion, and suffering has a negative effect on health.
If we change ourselves and our attitude to life, our lives will also change on their own. Let’s just change it for the better!
