— peculiarities related to the child's age. In children, the parts of the brain responsible for self-control and behavior are not sufficiently formed;
— excessive excitement;
- hunger;
— fatigue;
— the painful condition of the child.
💁🏻♀External reasons:
— unhealthy environment in the family;
- not adapting well to society.
💁🏻♀ Behavioral Reasons:
— the demand to relieve tension;
- trying to attract attention;
— the desire to determine the permissible limit;
— hyperactivity;
- the desire to emphasize his identity, to demonstrate to his parents the need to take into account his wishes.
🙅🏻♀ IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO FORBID A CHILD FROM CRYING. Why?
The child gets rid of tension and nervousness with the help of tears. The emergence of emotions normalizes the emotional state. A parent does not allow a preschooler to pass physical or emotional pain by prohibiting him from crying.
Adults usually say, "Stop crying, you'll be teased," "Stop crying, you're a big boy," "You're so ugly when you cry," "Nice kids don't cry," they say Such words cause strong emotions in the child - shame or fear. When such people grow up, they can't express their displeasure, endure bad attitude towards them for a long time, can't set boundaries.
💁🏻♀HOW SHOULD PARENTS RESPOND TO CHILDREN'S TEARS?
🟢First of all, they need to be calm. Take a deep breath and remember that your task is to teach the child self-control, and for this you need to be able to control yourself. Your behavior will serve as an example for the little one.
🟣Don't shout at him, it's better to talk to him calmly, ask him what he feels. Then the child will understand that you are not indifferent to his excitement. If he throws a tantrum in a public place, take him away from others and give him time to recover.
🟢After the child calms down, hug him and tell him how much you love him.
IS IT POSSIBLE TO KEEP RAZY?
Give time to the child. Make it a habit to recognize his good behavior, play together, applaud. If you do not have time to care and show affection during the day, it is better to refrain from reprimanding or punishing the preschooler for some actions.
✅ Allow children to control some small things, offer them several ways to move. For example, let the little one decide what to eat for lunch or what clothes to go to kindergarten.
✅ Allow the child to show his independence. Never do what he can do himself. Give up absolute control and let him make mistakes.
✅ Be consistent in following the rules and prohibitions. All adults involved in raising a child must agree, for example, if the mother does not allow him to go out, the father must also be against it.
✅ Never punish your child when you are angry. When people are excited, they usually do wrong things and regret it later.
✅ Consider your child's capabilities. If he is tired, don't force him to do something, let him rest.
☝️Remember❗️
A tantrum is usually not a cause for concern and will end without the intervention of others.
