“As a husband, know that your wife, because she is a woman, thinks and manages in a different way than you do, you need to follow the following advice to understand her lust and gain her respect:
1. Don’t think he has to save like you. Because he was created differently from you.
2. Don’t ignore it. Give him love, kindness and well-being. Because she needs these things by her feminine nature.
3. Don’t ignore his complaints. A woman always wants spiritual and loving support.
4. Do not be stingy in giving her gifts, because a woman does not like a stingy husband.
5. Don’t object to his family visiting him, if you oppose him, you will lose his love. Women will be more dependent on their families.
6. Express your jealousy from time to time. It pleases her feminine dignity.
7. Show her kindness, satisfy her femininity.
8. Don’t face his guilt. He doesn’t like criticism.
9. Do not turn away from him. A woman loves to listen to herself.
10. Do not betray him. The hardest thing for a woman is the betrayal of her husband.
11. Do not mock him or his feelings, for he is a delicate creature, unable to bear the wound.
12. Do not forget what he asked of you. Otherwise, he will have the notion that he has no dignity.
13. Don't withhold your help from him. Because a woman always needs someone she trusts and relies on.
14. Never neglect your family responsibilities and promises. Following them will make you feel your love for your wife.
15. Don’t ignore his suggestions on how to solve your two problems. If you do, it means you didn’t care about him.
16. Do not ask him to solve problems rationally and logically. Because a woman is usually given to more atifa - emotion.
17. Don’t get too involved in the little things of the house. Trust him on that. It makes her feel like the real mistress of the house.
18. Do not be unaware of praising him. Praise her for her clothes, her jewelry, her baking, her housekeeping. This pleases her sense of femininity.
19. Never forget that a woman experiences difficult situations such as pregnancy, childbirth and menstruation. In those times, his feelings need to be followed even more.
20. Don’t limit his personal freedom too much. Especially in social relationships.
