According to statistics, only 10 percent of marriages are built on love. The question arises here, why do men meet and fall in love with one and choose another for a wife? Today Gooper.uzIn, we try to understand the logic of men on this question.
Beautiful, smart and rich wife
When deciding to start a family, men set themselves the basic criteria for choosing a wife. It is often known that the woman he loves does not know how to cook, does housework, does not want to have children, so she does not fit the image of an ideal woman at all. So, a man marries a woman who can do these things, and then he finds a jasmine for himself.
Search for the ideal person
Sometimes both men and women are no exception to the search for their ideal. According to scientific evidence, it does not matter that ideals do not exist. Someone is left alone in life because of their beliefs and blames those around them, while those who follow the rule are very disappointed. Ideal women are looking for ideal men.
A second marriage for profit
In our age, many marriages are built for profit. Especially if the bride has a prestigious family, home, car and other financial stability benefits. Everyone wants to have confidence in the future, and men are no exception. If by marriage you have power, business, prestige, popularity in the community, there can be no question of love (applies only to some). After all, you can find another lover !?
Married men live longer
If a sane man wants to start a family, raise children, eat home-cooked food, there is nothing unusual about it. Many dream of such family happiness. When we are young, we look for the ideal person, and when we grow up, we weigh everything carefully on the scales to avoid mistakes, think long and hard, and as a result we are left alone. Others will enjoy family happiness, while others will make a mistake out of fear or unable to decide to find courage in themselves.
To jump out of even the last carriage of a passing train, a man marries a woman like himself who he first meets, but there is no love here. The stamp in the passport alone is not enough for family happiness.
Just marriage
There are enough reasons to get married without love. For example, when you try to break off a relationship with a friend, he suddenly "flew" (an unexpected, planned action for you), or you decided to change something in your life, you want to try something new, the fear of loneliness in old age , incompatibility with life, etc. All of these marriages are doomed to failure. You may not be divorced, but there will be no feelings, no love, no mutual understanding, no respect, no sorrow, no support in this family. As a result, this marriage can actually end in divorce. Maybe children will be born in the middle, but will they be happy with such parents ?!
Causes and consequences. I don’t think we’re all to blame in situations like this, it’s just that men start to take less initiative, play by the rules of the game that offer more life, and give up the love that matters.
