It is a great courage to forget anger, resentment, sadness and forgive someone! If someone clings to their memories, someone else will easily forgive. Can you forgive me quickly? Don’t you hold a grudge in your heart? This mental test will determine how forgiving you are.
Points for answers: a) - 4 points, b) - 3 points, c) 2 points, d) - 1 point.
1. What do you do if someone steps on your foot?
a) I'm sorry if he apologizes,
b) I will be pushed away,
v) reprimand,
g) I press his foot in response.
2. How would you respond if your loved one left you and then sent you an invitation to your wedding?
a) I wish him happiness,
b) I sigh,
c) I consider his work arrogant,
g) I am angry that he did it on purpose to torment me.
3. A former classmate who once poisoned your life wants to get a job at the company you lead. How do you do?
a) I laugh openly,
b) I bless the work of the past,
c) I greet him with a smile,
g) I try to break down in the first conversation.
4. You've met someone you haven't seen in five years…
a) "Five years have passed in one pass!"
b) the most important meeting,
c) I am interested in his disappearance,
g) "What do I do by digging up an old relationship?"
5. Your spouse opens the letter to you, what do you say?
a) "Shouldn't I open my pockets?"
b) "It's just a letter, but…",
c) "It was a letter to me"
g) "How can I trust you anymore?"
6. Your unemployed brother is angry about your expenses…
a) "he is jealous of me"
b) I feel sorry for him,
c) I explain politely,
g) I will explode.
7. The hardest thing for you to forgive is…
a) not to offend anyone,
b) deciding one's fate,
c) opening a new page in life,
g) to forgive someone’s guilt.
8. If the person who hurt you apologizes…
a) I get angry,
b) I feel sorry for you,
c) I understand,
g) I ride a horse of rage.
9. Your teacher, who is constantly beating you, angry and laughing at you, had an accident…
a) "There is truth!"
b) I feel sorry for you,
c) "it is still inescapable"
g) "He was punished!"
10. What you want to say to your worst enemy:
a) "I hate you!"
b) "I believe that one day you will become a good person"
c) "You can't do me any more harm"
g) "Let him return to himself!"
The result:
10-17 points. You cannot forgive those who have offended you. Anger is stored in your heart. Every time you hear about it, you get angry. When you learn to control your anger, you get rid of nervousness.
18-24 ball. If you are offended, you will suffer first, then you will shout at that person and forget your resentment. Most importantly, you are not a ginachi. It would be better to add reason to your actions.
25-31 points. Forgiveness is easy for you. You don't even think of revenge. That's fine, but don't bend your neck too much. Otherwise, you will lose your reputation.
32-40 balls. It is as if you have forgiven someone on the surface, but in your heart there is still pain and anger. Everyone thinks you are noble. In fact, you are not so "white". In any case, you will gain a real reputation if you combine your language and heart without complacency.
