💥WHAT SHOULD WE KNOW ABOUT CHILDREN'S TRANSITION CRISIS?
In the eyes of many, the transition period occurs only in the teenage years of a person's life.
☝️But it's not like that. Maybe we go through 7-8, sometimes up to 10 transition stages in our lifetime.
Regardless of the period, a complex emotional state can arise in each of them. In this case, the human child's relationship with himself and others changes, various diseases, stress, chronic fatigue and nervousness, hormonal and other physiological changes in the body are observed.
Below are listed the most important transitional crises in the early stages of human life that require attention and attention.
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👶🏻 Crisis in a newborn baby.
When a baby is born, naturally, for a certain period of time, his body undergoes the process of adaptation to a completely unfamiliar environment. That is, a warm, danger-free mother takes a step from her womb to the bright world. At this time, from breathing and eating, vision, movement and many other physiological processes change to a completely different form. According to psychoanalysts, any physical injury received at this time will accompany a person for life.
🙇🏻♂️3 age crisis.
At the age of 3, which is considered the stage of personal "I", most children face difficulties in establishing social relations with adults and peers. The famous German psychologist Else Köhler in her work entitled "The personality of a three-year-old child" listed seven types of changes in the psyche of children during this period. According to him, at this stage, negativism, that is, a negative reaction is observed in the relations of a person with other people, and the child does not want to obey adults.
👉At the same time, capriciousness, stubbornness, arbitrariness, objections, attempts to devalue adults and children's despotism (violence) are observed, and the expression "I myself..." can often be heard from him.
☝️As a result of wrong upbringing, the reaction of the child can cause extremely negative situations in some cases.
👫6-7 age crisis
By this period, the child's teeth change, facial appearance changes, the child's body grows rapidly, the body's endurance increases, the muscles are full of strength, and the balance of movements is improved. At this age, he begins to try to find his place in social relations. That is, a step is taken from the existing "I" to the social "I". A preschool child can say to himself: "I am kind", "I am suffering", "I am doing something bad". He takes a conscious approach to his actions and begins to deal with new ones instead of old interests.
☝️However, the child has not yet developed the ability to control his emotions. A chain of failures (in studies or relationships with adults) can lead to inadequacy, humiliation, loss of self-confidence, loss of competence, identity.
The child begins to consciously try to play a role, to enter pre-prepared, but not very realistic images. At this time, the upbringing of the child becomes difficult and it becomes somewhat difficult to manage it. At this time, the most necessary thing for a child is respect. If this need is not met, it becomes difficult to establish a relationship based on mutual understanding.
👉At the same time, he begins to consider and discuss the usual orders and demands of his parents, tends to cunning and stubbornness. Often "why?", "how?", "why?" starts asking questions. This age is also characterized by the loss of sincerity, which means that every behavior of the child should be answered with caution and patience.
