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Do you listen to what others have to say? Can you treat him with respect and patience? If you want to figure this out, answer the following test questions without thinking too long. Add 2 points for each b) option of answers.
1. You think you have an interesting idea. But no one supported him. Are you angry?
a) yes, b) no.
2. You’ve met your friends, someone invites you all to play a game together. What do you choose?
a) only good players should participate, b) those who do not know the rules of the game should also play.
3. Do you accept bad news calmly?
a) yes, b) no.
4. Do people who come to public places drunk make you angry?
a) I don’t like people who can’t control themselves, b) I don’t care if they don’t go overboard.
5. Can you easily communicate with someone in a different profession, situation, or tradition than yours?
a) it’s much harder, b) I don’t care about things like that.
6. What do you do if they make fun of you?
a) I don’t like a joke or a joker, b) I try to give him a decent answer even if I don’t like the joke.
7. Do you agree with the opinion that most people are “sitting in someone else’s place” and “not doing their job”?
a) yes, b) no.
8. You came to your circle of friends with your friend (friend) and he got everyone’s attention. What will you do?
a) I am dissatisfied with the distraction, b) I am happy about it.
9. In hospitality, an old man criticizes the modern younger generation and praises their past. What will you do?
a) I get into an argument, b) I go faster with respect.
The result.
0-4 points. You are disobedient and stubborn. Wherever you are, you are imagining yourself trying to get your point across. You will often raise your voice to achieve your goal. It’s hard to build relationships with people who don’t think like you and act like you.
6-12 points. You are able to defend your beliefs firmly. But, of course, you can build a conversation and change your mind if necessary. Sometimes you allow excessive tension, disrespect to the interlocutor. At times like these, you win the argument with someone with a weaker character. But is it necessary to “take it by the throat” when there is another way to win?
14-18 points. The stability of your beliefs is very much in keeping with your sharp mind. You can listen to any idea, you can understand the ridiculous behavior at a glance. You are critical of your own opinions and can respectfully and politely express your disagreement with your interlocutor’s misconceptions.