First wedding night (Expert advice)

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Marriage and marriage are among the happiest moments that every young man and woman in life has at the beginning. It is natural that in these moments the heart of the bride and groom is full of dreams. Marriage is the beginning of a golden life title. Therefore, every action taken in these days will be remembered by the young bride and groom, and every word and deed on this day will play a very important role in the future life of the two young people. So, how to open and write these golden pages.

With that in mind, we decided to talk as much as we could about what to do on our first wedding night.

We continue to wish the young and the old, who are reading our lines carefully, the happiness of both worlds and the happiness of marriage. So we left.

The bride came to an unfamiliar family. The bride feels a thousand kinds of fantasies, excitement, anxiety, fear and discomfort. The groom's treatment of the bride with a warm, open face and smile removes the bride's emotional discomfort, anxiety, and discomfort. In addition, it creates warmth and affection between the two ages. Therefore, when the bridegroom enters the bride's house, he should observe his personal hygiene, use beautiful perfumes, and treat the bride with an open face, good mood, gentleness, and meekness.

Of course, it is necessary to take the white blessing of the parents, say Bismillah and walk home with the right foot.

First wedding night and chimpanzee

Every young man and woman has the joy of marriage in their lives. The first reunion of young people will take place in accordance with our values ​​and traditions. That's why chimpanzees are full of passion, excitement and a world of dreams. Because this is where a new life begins and the cornerstone of the next life is laid. What you need to do and pay attention to in order for the wedding night to be beautiful, easy and smooth to join, and to lay the foundation stone for your future life.

If the first night coincides with the days of the month

Of course, it is not easy to control the emotions and feelings of a wedding night and a wedding day. In any case, there is a whole life ahead. In addition, many people are ready to see the details of your life under a microscope in the near future. Some even borrowed an electron microscope: _). So, thanks to those who bought this microscope, your life scene will be full of decorations and no critics will find any flaws in the performance. Those who bought a microscope on credit, unfortunately, bit their lip.

So, we try to control the emotions and feelings as much as possible. This is because it is as necessary as water and air for a good wedding night. In addition, excessive excitement and emotion can cause pain in the body and head, decreased arousal, or sudden menstruation.

If the bride is menstruating on the night of the first wedding, it is not permissible to reunite! Even unmarried young men know this. So there is no need to comment. Red light at the traffic light, any movement will be stopped!

Pain during vomiting

In most cases, the pain is most severe on the night of the first wedding. In any case, it is up to the young groom to decide how the first intercourse will go and whether it will be painful or not. First of all, before insertion, the penis is thoroughly rubbed with moisturizing cream to make it easier and safer to enter the vagina. The bride's body is tense and tense because she is excited and scared.

This can only be achieved by preparing the bridegroom well, finding a way to his heart, gaining his consent, and treating him sweetly. When a woman loses her fear, anxiety, and excitement, her vaginal muscles relax and some oily fluid is released. This allows the joint to pass as easily and painlessly as possible. Conversely, if the producer fails to prepare the bride for the role, the penis will be harder to penetrate and the pain will be more intense.

The downside of the pain is that in the future, the bride will have vaginismus, a contraction of the vaginal muscles that prevents her from having sex. Fear and pain from the first intercourse are considered to be one of the causes of vaginismus.

If the hymen remains after the first sexual intercourse…

Yes, you heard right. The veil of chastity was retained. This is also the case. Usually the hymen is located 1.5-3 cm inside the vagina. This curtain is actually a fold of mucous membrane. When combined, the hymen is torn. If this does not happen, it may be due to the strength and elasticity of the hymen. In addition, in some cases, rupture of the membrane may cause pain, irritation, and bleeding.

If the work is not completed on the night of the wedding and after a certain period of time there are no results, and the groom has no problems, he should go to a gynecologist for a personal examination.

If the veil of chastity is broken on the night of marriage, the action is stopped. Unable to contact for several days. This allows the injury to heal and subsequent intercourse to be painless and uncomplicated.

What is the reason for not bleeding after the first sex?

It also happens that when the veil of chastity is torn after merging, there is no bleeding. This is because the blood stays in the vagina without bleeding. The reason for this is that the bride did not sit down after the reunion. It was something the groom had to remind and the adults had to tell him. As a result, the young couple may try again to unaware that the veil has been torn, or they may have unpleasant dreams and misunderstandings.

Young bride and groom can't get married…

Of course, sometimes the bride and groom can't get along. Is it my fault or not !? The reason is obviously two years old.

Disadvantages of the groom:

• Not being able to find the bride's heart and prepare her enough to be reunited;

• Lack of knowledge of the anatomical structure and features of the female genitalia;

• Client sluggishness;

• Rapid ejaculation due to hypersensitivity of the head of the penis;

• Mental and physical stress, chronic stress and fatigue.

Our bride:

• Excessive panic and excitement in the bride;

• The bride is not physically and mentally ready to be reunited;

• Misconceptions and excessive fears about the first wedding night and reunion due to various rumors;

In addition, excessive resistance to the groom during intercourse, squeezing the bride's legs, and fear of the pain of intercourse, even if it is due to modesty, quenches the sexual desire of a young man. Turning the body in one direction or another is one of the factors that do not allow it to be combined.

The third plus! In fact, sometimes it's redundant

• The fact that the nurses did not prepare the bride well for the wedding night

• Intimidation of the bride with various nonsense and baseless rumors about the reunion and the situation in it, and causing misunderstandings

• The lack of an explanation of the spiritual, moral, and physical boundaries between what is to be done and what is to be done at the time of marriage.

In the past, I was very critical of the presence of yangs at weddings. It was as if I did not understand our habit. When I think about it, in fact, the role of yangs is different and important. It seems that the new yangs in our country have become the "correct" yangs in the new interpretation. For this reason, the attitude of the people towards the yangs has received a new interpretation. Well, we were a little distracted from the topic.

So, your task is to prepare the young bride for a new family life in a new family. Sometimes the yangs do the exact opposite. I hope the newcomers don't read this article. Give the bride a detailed understanding of the intricacies of family life, teach her well. The young girl had not yet known or heard anything about these things. Contribute so that you don't stumble too much in life because you don't know it at a young age. You must have a daughter too!

Otherwise, let the Creator give you sweet girls. Share the woman's duty in the family, the secrets of the delicate relationship between the couple. Explain carefully the process of weaning, the bride's behavior, and what to do (from ablution to washing) from thread to needle. Do not intimidate the bride with all sorts of nonsense and baseless rumors about the reunion and the situation, and do not cause misconceptions and fears. Explain the spiritual, moral, and physical boundaries between modesty and modesty. Knowing or not knowing the exact rules determines whether the bride and groom will be happy together or not. Remember! You are an example ambassador. Be impartial and good, worthy of an ambassador.

May your presence give strength and peace to the bride, not shame or excitement. If you succeed in this, you will see the happiness of both worlds!

Expert: Abdulhayev Fayzullo. Urologist, andrologist, sexopathologist. Candidate of Medical Sciences.
Tulane University, New Orleans, USA. National University Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia