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In some families, sex is only necessary for men. There, the woman acts as a means of satisfying the man. In some families, both men and women can enjoy sex. However, even after a certain period of time, they begin to experience a decrease in interest, a decrease in need, or dissatisfaction.
If such situations occur from time to time for some external reason, it is not a problem, over time everything will fall into place.
But if the situation doesn’t improve for a long time and the couple prefers to increasingly refuse to be together, there may be some deeper problem here. A deeper problem could include the presence of another woman on the sidelines, or a disease that negatively affects sexual desire. Putting them aside, even where there is no problem, there is a cooling off from sex.
Should there be diversity in sex?
It depends on the purpose.
If the goal is to improve a couple’s emotional relationship, diversity can do no good. Even if the goal is to ensure that the man doesn’t look at other women, it won’t help. If sexual satisfaction is expected with the help of sexual diversity, it is bound to be ineffective.
If you have a headache when you eat a green apple, a red apple does not solve the problem. But if you’re enjoying green apples, eating red apples in addition will add even more flavor.
Sexual diversity should not be used to solve a problem, but to bring pleasure to each other, to be pleasing, to do good, to express affection. Then the diversity of relationships is enriched.
Diversity doesn’t solve any problem, but it can take a good relationship to the next level.
How to diversify sex?
No one and no advice can improve your relationship. Only a man and a woman can naturally diversify their sexual relationship by being able to share and listen to their own and each other’s needs. It is likely that the experience learned from abroad does not correspond to the capabilities of your organism, your desires, and finally your real needs.
Therefore, if a couple intends to diversify their sexuality, they must first learn to feel, understand, listen to gestures, and respect each other during intercourse. Then new situations and appearances will appear by themselves. Most importantly, they can be pleasing not only to one side, but to both men and women.
Year after year, the rich, diverse sex makes the couple closer.
Baby birth and sex at home
Some couples have fantasies such as “We had a sexual breakdown with the birth of a baby”, “There is no time for sex” or “The baby is interfering with our sex”.
If a baby is born at home, will the couple’s sex change?
Of course it will change. Just don’t be in a hurry to say the downside!
True, the sleep of a child under 1 year of age is not always based on our plans. Although the couple is ready to be alone, the little boy may want to play with them at this time, or he may be hungry. A mother who is preoccupied with her child and household chores during the day may have no desire or power to have sex. A husband who is tired from work will find it easier to fall asleep on his own until his child falls asleep. Such situations certainly change the sexual relationship between a couple, but not for the better or for the worse. This relationship will now be simply different.
If there used to be a place for romance, now 5 minutes of time seems like gold to a lonely couple. If before the birth of the baby, sweet conversations, time for pampering was convenient, now it is preferable to move faster to the goal and make the most of the time when the baby is asleep.
Now the couple will be the parents first, followed by the man and the woman.
The important thing is that the couple should not be offended by sex after the baby is born. That is, it is wrong to say that it is impossible to return to an old relationship because of a baby. It is impossible to return to them, it is necessary to develop a new relationship, to adapt to it. Because while the presence of a baby affects the regularity, duration, and quality of sexual intercourse, it cannot affect the emotional connection between a couple. They continued to look at each other passionately, miss each other physically, and want sex. Only now in a different way, different.
If resentment or nervousness from a couple’s relationship is manifested in a man or woman, then the problem is not in the newborn, but in the emotional relationship between the couple.
The baby cannot interfere with sex.
If the obstruction already exists, the baby's crying will only be a cause. The child may state that the couple's relationship is actually in a bad state, that there is some problem between them.
If your sexuality has changed for the worse with the appearance of a baby in the bedroom, it means that there is a problem between the couple.
What is missing?
Why?
Who doesn't like what?
What to do?
Try answering questions such as.
In some cases, medical attention is also required. Decreased male sexual potency and the occurrence of endocrine changes in a woman due to breastfeeding can negatively affect sexual performance.
And the fact that a baby sleeps with a couple does not change the sexual relationship between them in a negative way. No matter how much he cries, he still sleeps. It is important that your desire stays until it or patience! If there is no patience or desire left, then the problem is in yourself (Fatigue, mental distance and other problems).
Sex in couples over the age of forty
When we talk about sex, we think of young people. Curiously, will couples in their forties, fifties or sixties also have sex?
It is in the hands of the couple that the sexual relationship between the couple does not diminish with age, that the sexual need for each other does not disappear. But more depends on the woman.
Conversation of two forty-year-old women:
"When will we see each other?"
- Let's see next week Thursday, what do you say?
"Wow, Thursday." We have soup on Thursday. I can't go in the evening.
"Wow, my friend, do you still have 'Thursdays'? I've lost my Thursdays and their meaning." I don’t even remember the last time I did Thursday, ”he laughs.
This is a real non-fiction conversation. Here two women of the same age were talking about having sex in secret. According to one, she had not had sex with her husband in a long time. Even if it is said as a joke, it is a sad situation.
For a forty-five-year-old woman, sex is also very important medically, psychologically, and socially.
First, research suggests that if a couple has regular sexual intercourse, a woman’s sexual and overall health will be better than that of women whose sex is weak or non-existent.
Second, because of sexual intercourse, a woman becomes accustomed to constantly looking at herself. Because her husband has to be “ready” whenever he wants.
Third, the woman strives to be attractive. A man in his forties and fifties also wants to see an attractive woman next to him, not as a big woman, but as he thinks. The attractiveness of a forty-year-old woman does not have to be the same as that of a 20-year-old woman. At any age, a woman can be attractive according to her age.
Fourth, the male is also a male at 70 years of age. Her sexual needs do not diminish with age. That is why it is important in a couple’s relationship that his wife meets his needs.
Fifth, the woman feels pleasant, needed because of sex. This frees him from excessive psychological problems. For example, conditions such as excessive nervousness, panic may be the result of sexual dissatisfaction.
Sixth, due to sex, blood circulation in the genitals improves, hormonal changes occur in the woman. The onset of menopause, which occurs when a woman is older, slows down.
Seventh, warmth, intimacy, and romance in a couple’s relationship cause them to thrive.
Of course, not only women but also men are responsible for regular sexual intercourse between couples. But there are many opportunities for men to satisfy their sexual needs. If his wife is unable to satisfy him, the other party is bound to turn away. As a result, the blessings of the home fly away, the couple's relationship deteriorates, and the family goes to school. And the woman has no choice but to rub herself, saying, "I don't care about Thursday." A woman should try all her life not to reach this level. No need to give up. Even if she moves, if her sexual relationship with her husband does not improve, and if the couple's relationship is over, she should succeed, but she should not stop. In any case, she becomes a self-respecting, weight-conscious, self-respecting woman.
But I’m in my forties or fifties, and there’s nothing worse than letting me think about what sex is, leaving me to be happy tomorrow. Because while a woman in her fifties is indifferent to sex, a man in his fifties can never be indifferent. It is up to the woman to at least fight for the woman who satisfies him to be his wife.
Shameless, unconventional sex
It’s also a shame to think about shameless sex. But there is no denying that these thoughts exist in the minds of men.
What is normal sex like?
All forms and forms of sexual intercourse, which are not forbidden in our Shari'ah and are not considered a sin, can be considered the norm. The most important thing is that it is liked by the couple equally and accepted correctly by them.
If a man cannot implement his dreams of sex in his wife, it is a law that he seeks a woman from abroad. Even when he is not looking, he always imagines what he is doing with another woman.
In order for a woman to accept her husband's dreams correctly, a man must first approach her correctly. Once again, it is not shameful to engage in sexual activity that is not considered a sin or prohibited by the Shari'ah.
Depending on how mature and perfect the sex in your family is, you can assess how much respect and mutual understanding you have for each other.
A man who can beautifully explain his dreams to his wife, without forcing her to do so, but who can show the good side, wins. Men who betray their families with women on the sidelines, saying they can’t tell their dreams to their mother, don’t realize what an unpleasant situation they’re in.
First, perverted women on the sidelines can never give a man genuine sexual love. Only a woman in love can offer true sexual satisfaction and sexual affection. In foreign women, everything is nonsense made for an artificial purpose.
Second, as the man educates his wife in male sexuality, the couple becomes closer, and in the meantime, true warmth begins to emerge. It has long been known among Uzbeks that a girl marries a virgin. That is, a man has a special urge to start a new sexual life with her.
Third, from a medical point of view, extramarital sex can sometimes lead to sexually transmitted diseases, as well as impotence (sexual weakness) for certain reasons.
Fourth, a man who realizes his fantasies with a foreign woman cannot, in time, arouse the desire to be satisfied with his wife without money or for other reasons. Because the wife will not even want the experience to satisfy her husband by this time. She would get it from experienced women abroad without her husband teaching her. As a result, when the couple is no longer young, they have no intention of improving this relationship, the age is not right, there is no intimacy to be able to talk about sex.
Fifth, the woman dies when the man betrays the family. No man likes living with a dead woman. The man has to act on his own to see the woman shining next to him. A shining woman can lift the man next to her to the blues.
Sixth, a man can be deprived of great wealth without learning his wife and listening to her heart and body. Some women have great sexual potential. But they do not know it because of their Uzbekness and inexperience. If a man is able to produce this potential in his wife in the first years of marriage, he will have no interest in a woman on the sidelines.
Seventh, men begin to be weaker than women as they get older. A man who has betrayed his wife all his life because of his sexual fantasies will have to live with a woman who is dissatisfied in his old age. This turns into an old-fashioned old-fashioned sight, often seen in Uzbek families.
Eighth, the bird of blessing and peace does not land on a family that is betrayed.
Every woman has natural sexual potential. Any woman can make a man happy at night. Every woman can offer her husband unique feelings. BUT! It takes time to learn that. Experience required. You need trust and intimacy.
If a man can patiently approach his virgin wife, gradually awaken her throughout his life, work together to improve his sexual experience, learn from each other, begin to listen to his body, and talk about his dreams to no one sexually you don’t need an outside partner to satisfy yourself.
The only "fault" of Uzbek girls is that they are inexperienced when they get married. (We are now talking about women who marry as virgins). Some men don’t like this inexperience. On the one hand, the groom needs a virgin, on the other hand, this virgin is an inexperienced woman who cannot provide them with the feelings they need. This is as precious as gold! Then the easiest way is to find an experienced woman from abroad and make it difficult to realize all your sexual dreams with her. It's a shortcut. The short way is always the wrong way. If a man does not push himself aside and spends his energy to arouse the virgin woman next to him, to arouse love in her, to convince her that sex is very pleasurable, then no woman on the other side can enjoy the answer she receives from him. 'radi. Because the passion of a woman who is sexually aroused will be different. No physically saturated woman on any side can artificially display such passion.
What does a man need in sex? The woman must have admired him! How impressed? He is amazed that he lost his head from sex. That is, no matter how shy a woman is, it is important that she learns to enjoy her husband and show it. It needs to be opened. Only the first step is from the man. The woman cannot open on her own. She is also afraid of opening up. What a man might think about it doesn’t allow him to be active. If the husband helps her, if she contributes to its unfolding, then she can enjoy the sexually awakened woman next to her for the rest of her life, just as we enjoy the unfolding flower. We need to understand that it is not possible to deviate from Sharia law alone. No sexual intercourse is considered a sin.
Morning sex
Can the couple be together in the morning? Isn't it a shame? Is there a dangerous place?
Adding a couple in the morning is not only harmless, but also beneficial!
First, it ensures that the couple is in a high mood throughout the day;
Second, morning sex will be of better quality. Because male and female sex hormones are at their peak in the morning, which ensures that communication is pleasant.
Third, in the morning the man will have more physical strength;
Fourth, there will be no fatigue in the morning, which is a guarantee of pleasant communication;
Morning sex is recommended for those who intend to become pregnant. Because at this time of day, male sperm have more power.