The relationship hidden behind the bedroom door is the basis for a new life. However, with the onset of pregnancy, many questions arise about sex. Some suggest completely abstaining from sex during pregnancy, while others say the couple should not stay away from each other.

Today we will get answers to the questions of expectant families from a high-class gynecologist Nilufar BOSTONOVA.

Is it possible to have sex during pregnancy?

It is not necessary to limit sexual intercourse until delivery if there is no risk of miscarriage during pregnancy. If a woman has had problems with previous pregnancies, she should take precautions. It is also recommended to have less sex in the first trimester of pregnancy and on dates previously expected to menstruate. A strict prohibition may be applied in the following cases:

• when there is a risk of miscarriage;
• in cervical insufficiency;
• in multiple pregnancies;
• satellite displacement and cracks;
• in the outflow of amniotic fluid;
• in infectious diseases.

Does it matter?

It is better to approach the issue individually. Some men become intoxicated with the expected happiness and love for their wives, while others try to restrain themselves so as not to harm the fetus. The couple should consult a doctor for a solution. Here are two words for men: not only is your wife's appearance changing, but her mental experiences are also a little different than before. Remember to consider his wishes as well! During sexual intercourse, a man cannot harm the fetus because it is protected by the uterus, placenta, amniotic fluid, and cervical mucus.

Does having sex during pregnancy cause premature birth?

It is determined by the condition of the woman and the fetus. Pregnancy problems, especially if there are no signs of miscarriage or premature birth, can lead to sexual intercourse until childbirth. However, it is recommended that sexual intercourse be discontinued 6 weeks before the expected date of birth if any potentially life-threatening conditions are identified for the woman and the unborn child.

Doesn’t that cause discomfort?

It can. However, this is normal. As the fetus develops, the uterus grows. Even at rest, a pregnant woman may experience pain, tightness, and low back pain in the lower pelvic organs. During sexual intercourse, however, these discomforts become more pronounced. In addition, breast tenderness increases from the first days of pregnancy, and your partner's caresses can also cause pain. It is no exaggeration to say that an enlarged abdomen also prevents sexual intercourse. Therefore, the expectant mother should choose a situation that is convenient for her. If there are restrictions, it is recommended to act as desired. But if a woman doesn’t want it, it’s not okay to force it.

Why do women's desires change so often?

Due to changes in hormonal status during pregnancy, a woman's sexual orientation varies. It also depends on a woman's pre-pregnancy desires. As the expectant mother increases her estrogen (female sex hormone), her partner's need for love increases. However, during the first trimester of pregnancy, most women experience dizziness, which can lead to increased sensitivity to various odors. This also leads to a decrease in sexual desire.

Is orgasm during pregnancy the cause of labor?

It is a mistake to think that uterine contractions during orgasm can lead to premature birth. If the uterus, cervix, and fetus are not ready for childbirth, sexual satisfaction cannot be a pretext for early termination of pregnancy.

Is intimacy recommended if the delivery is overdue?

If the uterus and fetus are ready for childbirth, but there is no sign of labor pains, doctors recommend that future parents have sexual intercourse. This is because sperm contains a substance called prostaglandin, which prepares the cervix for childbirth. For women who are unable to have sex, the substance is injected into the woman's uterus in the form of a gel in maternity hospitals. However, sexual intercourse is prohibited if the cervix ruptures or if a man is diagnosed with an infectious disease.

Are there strict contraindications to sexual intercourse during pregnancy?

There are no strict boundaries or prohibitions. It all depends on the condition of the woman and the fetus. Some issues are resolved in consultation with a couple gynecologist. The second trimester of pregnancy is the period when a woman's sexual desire is "flourishing." The woman's body is accustomed to the new state, the dizziness is behind her, and the abdomen is not large enough to interfere. Most pregnant women make the most of this period.

How important is a man's love?

The love of the father of the expectant child, or more precisely of a close person, has a positive effect on the mental and physical condition of the woman. If a woman feels loved, she is doubly happy. Pleasant emotions are an effective remedy for anxiety and fear of childbirth during pregnancy. In short, a woman is in a good mood after sexual intercourse.

Is sex during pregnancy good for your health?

Due to various changes in the body during pregnancy, a woman's body may require more intimacy than ever before. In addition, regular intercourse prepares the body for childbirth, achieving the necessary flexibility of the tissues. This ensures that there are no cracks in the vagina during childbirth.